Tuesday, February 01, 2005

Going... going...

The house is sold, pending the inspection today. Pretty fast, considering it was the day after the open house. But the realtor did say it would go fast, and I suppose realtors are supposed to know these kinds of things. Apparently it's a couple expecting a baby, and they'd like us to stick around. We're still wanting to move though. No news on that front.

We are doing pre-marital counselling for a couple at our church. Well, it's mostly "I" am doing it because my wife and son are busy during most of it. But I appreciate my wife's input. She read a diary entry from Dr. Dobson's mom from after her husband died. They sounded so much in love and she could barely function after he was gone. On the one hand, I don't know if I want to have a meltdown if my wife dies, but I do want to miss her and feel some sort of an emptiness like something is missing. I worry sometimes that my personality won't allow me that, or maybe it will. Hopefully I'll have another 60 or 70 years before I have to find out. The book she read from is Every Woman's Desire which I really recommend. In spite of the title, it's actually for husbands primarily, but good for wives too.

2 comments:

kelly ens said...

Wow - that went fast!
As for the marriage thing, I can see myself being a wreck if I ever lost my husband, but I would want to still be able to function. I've got that "Every Woman's Desire" book, and a number of other books in the series. They are fabulous. And the woman's book in that series is called "Every Woman's battle" and it also, is fabulous. http://www.shannonethridge.com/ and http://www.everymansbattle.com/ are the links. Best books I've ever read!

Robin said...

I'm confused - do you want to move, or don't you? If the new owners want you to stay, why wouldn't you?